Last week hanging out with some coworkers in the middle of a heated philosophical conversation someone paused and asked me (paraphrasing), “Why do you ask all these questions? Â why ask about what matters all the time?” Â Â In immediate response i simply said, “It’s the strategy I’ve learned that works for me to navigate the world.”
The question stayed with me over the weekend. Â While I believe my immediate response was accurate I wanted to better understand why it’s accurate – why is relentlessly asking “what matters? why does this matter? etc” an effective strategy (in my eyes) for navigating the world?
I believe the answer is FREEDOM. Â not free will, not free beer. Â but freedom of behavioral responses. Â Asking big questions opens perspectives and opens up new patterns of behavior. Â If one isn’t questioning assumptions and existing mythologies/fictions (and everything is somewhat of a fiction) then it’s hard to develop new strategies should new information come to light. Â Â Also, power is often a result of others knowing something you don’t. Â Not developing a question-based strategy gives into that aspect of power and over time it can be very deep conditioned helplessness.
I might even conclude this is the only strategy to achieve actual freedom.